Finding Hope When You Feel Exhausted

Posted on March 23, 2020
 by Leslie Newman
Tags: ,

Finding Hope

Are you feeling overwhelmed and exhausted by the circumstances in your life? Is there a hard place in you life where you face that feeling that things will never change? Are you having a hard time finding hope?

Miriam Webster dictionary defines hope like this: 

the feeling that what is wanted can be had or that events will turn out for the best

When we’re exhausted and we hoping for change, it’s hard to know where to place our hope.

Sometimes we hope in ourselves, depending on our own strength to make change happen. 

Depending on our own strength is a form of trying to control things that we really aren’t in control of. We want to fix and take care of ourselves, others, and our circumstances. But in life, as hard as we try, we will still make mistakes, take the wrong turns, and do the things we’ve determined not to do. We can change, but often our own strength alone is not enough. 

In the Bible, Paul stated it this way: 

For I do not understand my own actions. For I do not do what I want, but I do the very thing I hate. Romans 7:15 ESV

• Sometimes we hope in another person, thinking they will change.

It’s easy to point the finger and think that things would be better if the other person would just change. But in doing this, we are ignoring the fact that we can’t control somebody else or their choices. People can change, but we can’t make them do it. So placing our hope in that can be frustrating and disappointing. 

• Sometimes we depend on our circumstances, waiting for things to work out and change for the better.

When we put our depend on our circumstances, our hope becomes all wrapped up in if onlys. “If only ____________ would change, then ___________ would be better.”  Things can change, but we better not depend on our circumstances as the basis for finding hope. We simply can’t control many of the things that come our way.

So what can we hope in when we feel exhausted, stuck, and overwhelmed? 

What the Bible Says About Hope

Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen. (Hebrews 11:1, NASB)

My soul wait in silence for God only, for my hope is from Him. (Psalms 62:5 NASB)

And hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out within our hearts through the Holy Spirit who was given to us. (Romans 5:5 NASB)

Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who according to His great mercy has caused us to be born again to a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead. (1 Peter 1:3 NASB)

This hope we have as an anchor of the soul, a hope both sure and steadfast, and one which enters within the veil. (Hebrews 6:19 NASB)

But if we hope for what we do not see, with perseverance we wait eagerly for it. (Romans 8:25 NASB)

But as for me, I will hope continually and will praise Thee yet more and more. (Psalms 71:14 NASB)

A Hope that Never Fails

Fortunately, just like the verses tell us above, there’s another way to hope. If we put our hope in God and Who He is, we have found a hope that never fails. 

If we put our hope in God and Who He is, we have found a hope that never fails. #findinghope #hope Click To Tweet 

Hope is about having confidence in Who God is and what His Word promises us. When we focus on His character we find true hope instead of false hope in ourselves, others or our circumstances. Hoping in ourselves, others or our circumstances, keeps us tied up in self-sufficiency. It keeps us exhausted and disappointed.

Hope based on the character of God makes way for confident hope that we can rely on. Fortunately, Biblical hope is so much more than a dictionary definition. Biblical hope is something we can know and count on. 

“Hope Click To Tweet

What does the Bible Tell Us About God’s Character? 

God loves us unconditionally (1 John 3:1, Psalm 103:8-11, John 3:16

God is full of wisdom. (Isaiah 40:28, James 1:5, Romans 11:33

God is Faithful (2 Timothy 2:13, 1 Thessalonians 5:24, Hebrews 10:23

God is Kind (Titus 3:4-5, Jeremiah 31:3, Job 12:10)

God is gracious (Exodus 34:6, 2 Thessalonians 2:16, 1 Timothy 2:1, Titus 2:11

God keeps His promises. (Joshua 21:45, Joshua 23:14, 2 Corinthians 1:20

God will never fail us. (Isaiah 14:24, Philippians 4:19, Hebrews 13:5)

With Jesus, with God, and with the Holy Spirit we have a Three-in-One relationship that we can rely on. No matter what circumstances we wake up to each morning, there is a promise of real hope - the kind that never fails. We'll find the hope that won’t disappoint us in a Person Who will never fail us.

No matter what circumstances you woke up to this morning, there is a promise of hope. #findinghope #hope Click To Tweet

The Tool Box

Today’s Tool Box is a printable image with Bible verses about hope. You can find the Hope Verses Printable HERE or by clicking on the image below.

Click the picture to download your free printable!

Turn the 7 verses into affirmations or prayers. You can focus on one each day for a week. See if this helps you find hope in life. His Word never returns void! (Isaiah 55:11

This post may be linked in other places. Click HERE to find out where!

Are you ready to say “no” without the guilt? Get my free guide by clicking the image below. 👇🏻

Share This Post

8 comments on “Finding Hope When You Feel Exhausted”

  1. You caught my attention when you said, " Sometimes we hope in ourselves, depending on our own strength to make change happen." Out of the 3 examples, this is where I would tend to try to move ahead and fix and that leaves me in a place of not truly seeing how God is already working.

    1. That’s my main trouble spot, too, Mary Lou. I’ve missed God often because I’ve tried to do things my own way. Letting go of that is not easy, but so freeing!

  2. Hey Leslie, I love reading about hope. I like how you reminded us that when we hope in ourselves, others, or circumstances, it's hope we can't count on. Life offers us so many false hopes. I'm glad the only true hope is found in Jesus Christ. Colossians 1:27 is one of my favorites, "Christ in you, the hope of glory." (ESV)

  3. We truly do have hope, not because of ourselves or others, but because we know who God is and how he is there to always help us. "Hope is about having confidence in Who God is and what His Word promises us."

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

 Get my free People-Pleaser’s Guide

Leslie Newman Coaching
linkedin facebook pinterest youtube rss twitter instagram facebook-blank rss-blank linkedin-blank pinterest youtube twitter instagram