leslie newman
Boundaries Coach
for HSP Christian Women
Better Boundaries
for the
Tender♡Hearted Woman
If only boundary-setting didn’t feel so stinkin’ hard.
Especially for a recovering people-pleaser.
There’s so much “Just DO it!” advice going around these days:
Just be assertive! Just be fierce and unapologetic! Just draw the line!
Which creates a real dilemma for tender-hearted women like you and me because we are never going to be able to flip that switch, ever.
We aren’t wired to be assertive, fierce, unapologetic, draw-the-line kind of women. Boundary-setting for the tender-hearted woman simply doesn’t match the advice we are typically given.
But what if boundary-setting doesn’t have to feel so hard after all?
There is a different approach that works for the way you are wired—an approach that’s gentle, compassionate and Biblical.
Just imagine…
Never again having to “toughen up” and draw the line, but instead showing up as your tender-hearted self — even when setting a boundary.
A fresh and gentle approach to boundary-setting that works with the way you are wired. [Spoiler Alert!] It’s not the same old “Just DO it!” approach.
Saying “no” with confidence, knowing that you have given the best answer for everyone involved…including yourself.
An un-worried life, where you can have healthy boundaries and not feel so stinkin’ guilty about them.
You’re always there when others need you, and you care—a lot.
But the truth is, you’re overwhelmed and exhausted—so exhausted that you feel as if you have nothing left to give.
You are like so many of us tender-hearted women. You give—and give—and give again. In the process, you’ve lost yourself somewhere along the way.
As a recovering people-pleaser you know that something has to change.
So you’ve tried boundaries—more than once.
There’s the guilt, the fear of hurting others and that never-ending worry that you are letting someone down.
Boundary-setting just feels so bad, especially as a Christian woman.
Without support, you’re feeling really discouraged. It seems like boundaries backfire on you. It’s just too much for your tender heart, and you feel like giving up.
I tried boundaries, too—more than once.
There was the guilt, the fear of hurting others and that never-ending worry that I was letting someone down.
Boundary-setting just felt so bad—especially as a Christian woman. Just like you, I felt like giving up.
But I knew there had to be some way to take care of myself so I could show up with enough energy to give what God put me down here on earth to give.
And in my searching I discovered a new approach to boundaries—one that works with the way that I’m wired.
To my surprise, I realized…
Boundary-setting doesn’t feel so bad anymore.
I can be my tender-hearted self and set healthy boundaries that allow me to show up as myself and do the things God created me to do.
You can, too.
I’ll show you a fresh approach to boundary-setting—one that’s gentle, compassionate and Biblical—one that works with the way you are wired.
You’ll start showing up as your tender-hearted self—even when setting a boundary. You’ll be able to be present for the things God created you to do without feeling exhausted and overwhelmed any longer!
Ready to stop feeling so overwhelmed and exhausted?
You are in the right place if...
√ You are a recovering from people-pleasing and you are ready to move beyond the old patterns that are keeping you stuck in overwhelm and exhaustion.
√ You want to stop feeling secretly resentful when you serve others, and instead have enough bandwidth to do the giving and still have a life of your own.
√ You want to find out why setting boundaries has always felt so hard—and discover how that can change.
√ You want to receive guidance and practical tools to help you learn a fresh, gentle approach to boundary-setting that works with the way you’re wired.
√ You are looking for a new freedom to set boundaries. Yes, even as a Christian woman!
Boundary-setting really doesn’t have to feel so hard.
Come find out why!
