leslie newman

                                     Boundaries Coach

                                       for HSP Christian Women

Better Boundaries

for the

TenderHearted Woman

If only boundary-setting didn’t feel so stinkin’ hard.

 

Especially for a recovering people-pleaser.  

There’s so much “Just DO it!” advice going around these days:

Just be assertive!

Just be fierce and unapologetic!

Just draw the line!

Which creates a real dilemma for tender-hearted women like you and me because we are never going to be able to flip that switch, ever.

We simply aren’t wired to be assertive, fierce, unapologetic, draw-the-line kind of women.

But what if boundary-setting doesn’t have to feel so hard after all?

There is a different approach that works for the way you are wired—an approach that’s gentle, compassionate and Biblical.

Just imagine…

Never again having to “toughen up” and draw the line, but instead showing up as your tender-hearted self — even when setting a boundary. 

A fresh and gentle approach to boundary-setting that works with the way you are wired. [Spoiler Alert!] It’s not the same old “Just DO it!” approach. 

Saying “no” with confidence, knowing that you have given the best answer for everyone involved…including yourself.

An un-worried life, where you can have healthy boundaries and not feel so stinkin’  guilty about them. 

 

You always there when others need you, and you care—a lot.,

But the truth is, you’re overwhelmed and exhausted.

Like many tender-hearted women, you give. And give. And give. And in the process, you’ve lost yourself somewhere along the way. 

 As a recovering people-pleaser you know that something has got to change. 

So you’ve tried boundaries—more than once.

There’s the guilt, the fear of hurting others and that never-ending worry that you are letting someone down. 

Boundary-setting just feels so bad, especially as a Christian woman. 

Without support, you’re feeling really discouraged. It seems like boundaries backfire on you, It’s just too much for your tender heart. You feel like giving up. 

I tried boundaries, too—more than once. 

There was the guilt, the fear of hurting others and that never-ending worry that I was letting someone down. 

Boundary-setting just felt so bad—especially as a Christian woman. Just like you, I felt like giving up. 

But then I discovered a new approach to boundariesone that works with the way that I’m wired.

To my surprise, I realized… 

It doesn’t feel so bad anymore. 

I could be my tender-hearted self and set healthy boundaries.

You can, too.

I’ll show you the fresh approach to boundary-setting that I’ve discovered. It’s one that’s gentle, compassionate and Biblical—and it works with the way you are wired.

You’ll stop feeling so overwhelmed and exhausted. You’ll start showing up as your tender-hearted self—even when setting a boundary!

Ready to stop feeling so overwhelmed and exhausted?

Leslie’s love and warmth always shines through in everything she does. Her ability to listen is enhanced by her keen knowledge of human nature, and she poses questions that will enable you to think and search for the answers God wants you to find in your life. With her valuable coaching and guidance, I have been able to begin the empty nest phase of life with a new direction and a sense of hope and purpose. 

Anna

You are in the right place if...

 

√ You are a recovering from people-pleasing and you are ready to move beyond the old patterns that are keeping you stuck in overwhelm and exhaustion. 

 

√ You want to stop feeling secretly resentful when you serve others, and instead have enough bandwidth to do the giving and still have a life of your own. 

 

√ You want to find out why setting boundaries has always felt so hard—and discover how that can change.  

 

√ You want to receive guidance and practical tools to help you learn a fresh, gentle approach to boundary-setting that works with the way you’re wired. 

 

√ You are looking for a new freedom to set boundaries. Yes, even as a Christian woman. 

 

Boundary-setting really doesn’t have to feel so hard. 

Come find out why! 

Leslie’s workshop was like a breath of fresh air to me! I was so encouraged to find ways to de-stress and take a step back from the pressures of life. Her message was clear and easy to implement into my own daily life.

Rhonda

Are you ready to…

√ Say “no” without the guilt?

√ Discover simple strategies to help guide your decision making?

√ Get a mini-prayer guide to help you stop people-pleasing?

√ Receive encouraging once-a-month-or-so emails to find out why setting boundaries has always felt so hard—and discover how that can change?